THE STAGES OF LOVE
The Way of Love is a continual sacrifice; and what gets sacrificed are the lover's thoughts of "I", until at last comes the time when the lover says, "O Beloved! will I ever become one with you and so lose myself forever? But let this be only if it is your Will." This is the stage of love enlightened by obedience.
Now the lover continuously witnesses the glory of the Beloved's Will; and in the witnessing does not even think of union. He willingly surrenders his entire being to the Beloved, and has no thought of self left. This is the stage when love is illumined by surrender.
Out of millions, only one loves God; and out of millions of lovers,
only one succeeds in obeying, and finally, in surrendering his whole
being to God the Beloved.
THE EVERYTHING AND THE NOTHING, p. 4
1963 © Meher House Publications, Beacon Hill, Australia
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